I massage Alexandra often. For this I use Olive oil, Coconut oil and Lavender essential oil. This is simple and maybe the safest and less expensive. I take a little plate where i pour the three. I sometime use only one or two . I pour two or three drop of the lavender that I also use for her bath mixed with Epson Salt. I send Alexandra to school with a small pot of the coconut oil so they can massage her hands during the day. From the time I start to use the coconut oil Alexandra stop having redness or problem with her skin on her hands. I like it very much , because it is fine if she put her hands back to her mouth, Coconut , Olive and Lavender oil are safe to be digested. I put some on her face, but also on her little derriere when I change her diaper. No rash or sore and she always smell very good. Once a week after the warm bath, I massage Alexandra full body. I do a instinctive gentle massage. I try to get in touch with her body and gently massage her everywhere. I insist on the wrists and ankles, hands, fingers, feet and toes. I also do her belly, her front shoulder, legs, arms. I reach under her hips to the spin to relaxes a little her basin. I massage her back when I can and finish by her ears and a small touch to her face.